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"The more we are prodded the lazier we get, and the
less capable of the effort of will which should carry us to, and nearly carry
us through, our tasks." — Charlotte Mason {Vol. 3, p. 39-40}
It's Monday, which means my mind is full of all the tasks I
have to accomplish this week as well as a nagging reminder of all I failed to
finish last week. In many ways, Mondays are the hardest to get started because
it seems that there is just too much to do in too short of time.
In fact, "The List" was in the forefront of my
mind all morning as I was trying to get through my early morning routine. As
usual I found myself distracted and then chastising myself for my
lack of work effort. I don't have a single person telling me what I have to do
right now — except for me — and I've discovered the more I try to motivate
myself the more frustrated I've become of late.
Rather than being productive, every glance at the clock
reminds me just how much time I've wasted in a pointless internal struggle.
This is a serious problem.
So it was a blessing to see
Charlotte Mason's quote
posted on my mother's Facebook page this morning. For those not familiar
with this incredible woman, she was a champion for improving the education of
British children in the late 19th through early 20th century. She is also a
hero to many homeschoolers.
Charlotte was also my mother's inspiration as she raised us.
Much of my love of learning stems from what my mother learned through
Charlotte's methods. In seeing the above quote, I was reminded of the most
important lesson I learned at my mother's feet:
Focus on one thing at a time. Give it your full attention
and when the prescribed time is up move on to the next task. Do not worry
about what came before and what comes after. Just focus on what you need to do
in this particular moment.
As soon as I read Charlotte's quote it seemed as if a huge
weight came off my shoulders. It's so easy to forget that I don't have to
tackle an entire mountain in one go. The work is done a shovelful at a time.
With each shovel emptied, I'm one step closer to finishing my work.
I don't know what your week looks like. Perhaps you're far
better organized than I am and have a system in place that works wonderfully
for you. But if your Monday is starting out like mine with a sense of
overwhelming doom, take heart in knowing you aren't facing your battle alone.
Mom always made me work in 15 minute increments when I was
younger. It taught me to focus and it allowed me to move onto something else
(even if it wasn't completely finished) about the time my attention started to
wane. I learned later on it was an attention building exercise that also
improved memory retention. (Which would explain why I've gone from
remembering everything to forgetting what I was trying to say only moments
ago.)
I figure if it worked then, it would work now. So instead of
allowing my inner slave driver to goad me and make me feel worthless and lazy because I can't do everything at once,
I'm going to tackle today — and the rest of this week — one moment at a time.
Happy Monday to you all, my friends! May this week bring you
a sense of joy and accomplishment as well!